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it's all over now.



19:39 |
22/Jan/2007 | 24 Comment(s)



 



It's all over now!



Ending ties is
never easy

It's not what happened

But why it did.

Sometimes it's unfair

Sometimes it's thrust on you

Sometimes it haunts you

Sometimes it kills you

So why did you stop talking?

Why did you cut relations?

Because you wanted to protect yourself.

And stop being hurt.

Enough is enough.

Just let me be.

So many times we've done this.

With childhood friends, relatives and colleagues.

But the ones you don't regret.

Thank God! You did.























Amit Agrawal said...



6:03 PM | 22/Feb/07 | |



 



good one:)



 






 























bulbultuk bulbultuk said...



6:39 PM | 20/Feb/07 | |



 



its better to go away from fire than
burn ur
fingers.....bb



 






 























pushpa said...



4:21 PM | 12/Feb/07 |



 



Caje, This poem is a reflection of the
kind of emotions presently i am going through. It touched somewhere my
inner space. Although i left blogging since some painful memories are
attached, but i keep reading your posts regualarly as they are so sensitive
and poignant. Regards, Pushpa



 






 























Tulip Bloom said...



9:54 PM | 30/Jan/07 | |



 



words convey the feelings......



 






 























siva vathy said...



3:17 PM | 30/Jan/07 | |



 



hi caje...hope u r''member me.... r u
soooooooooo hurt yar....?it''ll all b fine ya... don'' worry.... ur blog
''ll kind ''f make any 1 cry............i''m able 2 feel da
same............don'' worry...it''ll all end wid a "happily ever
after"... take care baba..........regards,shiva.......



 






 























Ramesh R said...



10:01 PM | 26/Jan/07 | |



 



Been there...... done that. Know the
pain and the confusion and the hate.Good Post ..very real as if you have
really experienced it recently.



 






 























urvi s said...



8:14 PM | 26/Jan/07 | |



 



very true. but some times, after the
ending u r not sure if u regret the ending or u r happy that it
ended...what to do then my friend ? dont know. neverthless, ur writing, as always,
addresses the crux of subject. nice one....



 






 























Chitra Venkatessalu said...



7:14 PM | 25/Jan/07 | |



 



is it possible to be totally free from
any remorse or regret?? One tender moment in all of a relationship??



 






 























aradhana khanna said...



3:27 PM | 25/Jan/07 | |



 



i did not understand wot the last two
lines meant.....caje.....



 






 



























neetha nair said...



9:40 AM | 25/Jan/07 | |



 



yes....agreed with the "And stop
being hurt" , put up a brave front and behave as if we dont need any
one when we feel lonely ....till u heal yourself... understand ...ending
ties is sometimes like silence after a storm, disturbing , but u will
recover and bounce back , all of us will ....



 



 




















Ever Changing said...



10:42 PM | 24/Jan/07 | |



 



sometimes it''s better to leave than to
carry on with a bleeding heart....but it''s even better to stick together
and be happy in the reunion



 






 























Honey Kumar said...



3:37 PM | 24/Jan/07 | |



 



break ups and ends always r
heart-wrenching....dont knw why ppl do it...if i had my way ..i would never
leave sumone.....



 






 























surekha das said...



2:08 PM | 24/Jan/07 | |



 



as i always say caje...............ur blogs are worth reading...........keep bloging, as ur friends love to
read them.....



 






 























Sanjana Guha said...



10:27 AM | 24/Jan/07 | |



 



GREAT POEM.IT''S VERY HEART
TOUCHING.AND A VERY HARDE TRUTH.



 






 























KABERI DUTTA said...



8:42 PM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



ties cant end . i believe all ties in
our life left a spot . so ties never can be ended . at any moment we can
get back if it does not hurt me .



 






 























Mirror R said...



5:25 PM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



ending ties is always sad whether or
not its a politically correct decision..



 






 























Shyama Menon said...



3:56 PM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



Again superb especially the last two
lines! :)



 






 























shahana qutab said...



11:15 AM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



ya caje u r true t a certain extent. i
like all ur
blogs....they make us think and awaken us with a jolt. but i think in a
realtionship we should not expect perfection. human nature is dynamic and
can nevr be deciphred completely. so instead of stopping talking completely
we should maintain level of courtesy, not expect much n move
ahead....frgive....i no its not easy but then a human being is prone to
mistakes. human mind is complex....even we donot no why we did some things.
Moderation is a great virtue and all relationships can be saved with this
virtue.....n we wont be hurt also....neither willl hurt others.



 






 























ami ami said...



10:56 AM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



Hi there....making a relationship is
very easy,but maintaing it is very difficult....it''s always good to try
atleast once to save it even if u r not on fault....but after that it''s
upto u if u wanna quit it...coz it requires efforts from both sides to get
it going....u can''t make it live just on ur own...



 






 


























amol prabhudesai said...



9:39 AM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



Its better to be sorry, as to be safe
later... its one''s personal decision...



 




















pooja pooja said...



9:47 AM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



u can break a relatioship but its
memories bad or good can not be deleted from ur life



 






 























shimrose bakshi said...



9:05 AM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



When its over you dont even have to
make an effort to end it..its just done..



 






 























kanksha p said...



12:50 AM | 23/Jan/07 | |



 



How very true "Enough is
enough.Just let me be." You know it is saiid that be slow to get into
relationships, equally firm.....and then be equally slow to get out of them
when needed, so that you never feel a doubt of ....Perhaps?"



 






 
























Star Trekker said...



9:17 PM | 22/Jan/07 | |



 



hmm..I stopped talking to my
friend....but im glad it''s over...



 



 






 





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