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Wednesday 20 August, 2008
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15:25 |
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Got it!


So very often we misunderstand what's being
said. 

If we don't say what we mean, we won't mean what we
say.  




Don't we choose to listen only to what we want to hear?



Sometimes choosing to be silent even though we know that we're being
misunderstood.




And there are so many things staring us in the face.

That we cannot see,

even though it's crystal clear.



How we love to advise others

and yet not know what's good for us.



It's the big joke of life

You get everyone else's but yours.



 




















aparna m said...



4:06 PM | 13/Mar/07 | |



 



choosing to be silent even though we
know we r being misunderstood... welll that raises a few questions..y do we
do so?sometimes we do things contrary to wat we believe in...reasons?is it
to satisfy others?or being unable to show our own point of view?r we
scared?or just let it be so for the happiness of others?y?y?y?



 








 























madhavi sreenivasan said...



3:49 PM | 12/Mar/07 | |



 



hey... but why a monkey''s photo over
here... how is it related to ur
piece ???



 






 























madhavi sreenivasan said...



4:10 PM | 12/Mar/07 | |



 



easier said than done...



 






 























madhavi sreenivasan said...



4:10 PM | 12/Mar/07 | |



 



yeah.. thats the irony... :-)



 






 























jaspreet tina said...



11:32 AM | 12/Mar/07 | |



 



i like u joke but it is not the joke it
is the factu now that iam u fan i always read your blog



 






 























GoodBye Iland said...



4:12 PM | 10/Mar/07 | |



 



How very true... We all do go through
these delusions in life.... Every think is in front of us yet we beleive
only that what we want to..



 






 























simran kumar said...



1:26 PM | 9/Mar/07 | |



 



easy to preach.........hard to
follow...............most of us do that..but still don mend r
ways...........



 






 























gunasagar kumar said...



10:06 PM | 7/Mar/07 | |



 



what is ur name?



 






 























Agusta Alphonso said...



1:55 PM | 7/Mar/07 | |



 



Ya, Caje the snaps you put are really
good and I totally agree with your view. Very, very, very often we
"want to listen to what we want to hear" and "give advice to
others although we don''t have solutions for our own problems".Infact
I feel the reason we do this is perhaps because when help others there is a
deep inner satisfaction that we ourselves experience.



 






 























Muskan M.C.N said...



9:53 AM | 7/Mar/07 | |



 



Quite true




















hira kadlabju said...



11:36 PM | 6/Mar/07 | |



 



Nobody gives anything so liberally as
advice. Well written post.



 






 























urvi s said...



6:41 PM | 6/Mar/07 | |



 



hence its so imp to look inside and
actually reflect on what really advice v wud give ourself...nice one



 






 























nivedita sharma said...



9:36 AM | 6/Mar/07 | |



 



sooo true..............



 






 























Gulden C said...



7:32 PM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



Oy. So darn Right Man! But what? But
why? And all of us? Again how? Hang it! That''s HOW we are, dude~!



 






 























Niharika Bose said...



4:27 PM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



truly said............



 






 























Gouri Sarkar said...



3:34 PM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



truly said, a point not to be ignored.



 






 























richa bhagwat said...



1:24 PM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



again you have put the complex reality
of life in such simple words..................ME



 






 























shahana qutab said...



11:24 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



very true....infact those line i v
always been thinking bout...ibut cud nevr put thm t words .......everything
tats written in the blog happens t me quite often...these lines are very
true.



 






 























Rajakumari Manikkavasagam said...



10:56 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



Wonderful thought....



 






 























amol prabhudesai said...



10:22 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



u said it right... nice post...




















Chitra Venkatessalu said...



10:35 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



now you''re teasing our minds with
messages......so true



 






 























bhawna deshwal said...



9:49 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



this is true



 






 























rachita chauhan said...



9:14 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



sometimed living in own
"illusioned" world makes you feel happy, love, rachita



 






 























Indigo Iris said...



8:39 AM | 5/Mar/07 | |



 



so many contradictions in life .....



 






 























vatsala joshi said...



9:06 PM | 4/Mar/07 | |



 



true.



 






 























Poonam KKG said...



8:38 PM | 4/Mar/07 | |



 



rightly said. we all know @ this yet we
seldom follow them



 






 























anita singh said...



7:11 PM | 4/Mar/07 | |



 



nice post .



 






 













alpana said...



6:20 PM | 4/Mar/07 | |