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friends into lovers!
Friends into lovers
Just when does friendship turn into love?
Is it when lust takes over?
Kindergarden, school, college mates,
colleagues, team mates, fellow performers...
suddenly get hit with the realisation.
Boing! Boing! Boing!
And then comes the tricky part
Of messing up a friendship with a twist
squeezing out the open exchange
and adding to the cocktail
a little dash of bitters.
Poof! Goes the friendship
in one silly move.
Some graciously decline.
Others are offended, appalled, aghast.
A few convert
from friends into lovers.
So can friends who've declined a desire to be lovers remain
friends?
Can lovers who are no longer lovers be just friends?
The fear of hurting and hearing the,
"I didn't expect this from you!!!"
is nothing compared to the loss
of missing out on a lover
who you kept just a friend.
aparna m said...
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4:18 PM | 13/Mar/07 |  | 
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ask me?finding a lover in ur frnd may
turn out to be a surprise...but finding a frnd back in ur lover is the most
beautiful thing that can happen.If frndship truly existed in the first
place..i think no other relation can outstand it.
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aparna m said...
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4:07 PM | 13/Mar/07 | |
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hmmmm... beautiful...sigh!!!
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jaspreet nagi said...
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12:18 PM | 3/Mar/07 | |
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i am jaspreet i realy like u blogs i
love to read all this one is also nice
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Plain Me said...
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10:40 AM | 23/Feb/07 | |
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Well written....... A lesson one should
always keep in mind before getting involved with a friend and thus messing
up things.
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bulbultuk bulbultuk said...
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6:38 PM | 20/Feb/07 | |
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lovers can bcome frnds but i thnk frnds
turned luvrs may have it difficult to get gng in the same vein......But,
nwadays love and frndshp have bcome tomfoolery.......smtimes meaningless
and mostly unsustainable..........bb
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janhavee said...
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11:05 AM | 19/Feb/07 | 
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its rather a difficult and confusing
question to ans...whether its right or wrong to convert one relation to
other... buts its even more difficult when u dont know what u want out of
it . i think every relation is based on love even if its definations are
different but its still love!very nice post ! u really knw how to express
those complex emotions !!!!!
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Hima said...
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7:31 PM | 13/Feb/07 |
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Oh God such a pathetic thing in my life
wen ur old friend turn to lover....plz guys dnt get such bullshit
experience......its really a terriabale experience....one day u came to knw
that ur old friend or ur turn lover ditched u so badly tat u cnt take it
anymre or nt even able to accept tat the same had done such thg with ...who
knws u from last so many years..u knws ur emoitions...ur sentiments...ur
feelings...n alll still leave u in mid of road.....u dnt beleive and then u
wnt to tk 1 more chance....bt thgs remain as it ws early......So i wnt to
say that DNT get involve or fall in love with Old friend......Dnt !!!
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Valsa Lall said...
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5:52 AM | 10/Feb/07 | |
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Age old question; interesting take.
Gollum (another LOTR fan) is probably just saying the sensible thing.
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gollum said...
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6:22 PM | 9/Feb/07 |
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well ; hell..i think that theres always
this chance of ur friendship getting decayed into love if u come much too
closer ...u stand a chance of losing 2 ppl !!
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Shyama Menon said...
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5:52 PM | 7/Feb/07 | |
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Should be fine methinks if u know each
other well important thing is to try!
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madhumati chitale said...
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7:22 PM | 3/Feb/07 | |
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If they are really your friend and not
judging you then wheres the problem,it was just a biological urge.But if
they are mind fucked because of a pass give them a ticket to ride on and
what the hell you aint gonna catch no fish if you dont throw your line. A
friend is a friend for life fornication or no fornication ,but a friend or
a lover with a fucked head ,head on a beer is better.
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dee vine said...
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8:22 PM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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fuck it. just take it in your stride...
a pass made here and there should not alter your perception man.. we''re
all human... why ruin a good thing just bcoz lust made an appearance? say
no thankyou and move on... or say yes please and move on...
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Niki said...
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5:35 PM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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Hi... really well written...and very
apt too...i am one of the few lucky ones who converted friendship into love
and it has remained so...... :)
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Jiby Thomas said...
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4:43 PM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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Hi, Friend into lovers (well said),
after reading this one thing i got sure with that........in friendship (boy
and a girl) can''t be intimate friends, some how their arise which keeps
them away from friendship........and i agree with shmrose......that in all
the relationship their exist love.........but we make it a complicated
one............Have a great day.........Take
Care.........Regards........Jiby.....
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anya dsouza said...
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12:53 PM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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Beautifully written, with a refreshing
clairvoyance about it.
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Mirror R said...
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9:30 AM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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love is transient, friendship is
eternal..
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shimrose bakshi said...
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8:23 AM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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love is the true essence of our
existence..but we make it so complicated..that we run when we hear the word
LOVE.
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silent screams said...
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12:02 AM | 2/Feb/07 | |
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nice lines..." are you just
another excuse to stay fallen in love?" ...follows the adage of
"better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"
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naina chopra said...
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11:57 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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well said but it hurts in any corner of
the heart
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lakshmi sarada said...
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11:16 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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hi, how can lovers who no longer are
lovers remain friends, to me seeing that person sends trains of thoughts in
my mind, I can never be the same again with that person.
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urvi s said...
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9:19 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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all i can say is u write effortlessly.
and like always, ur
ending is best part. its a twist and thought provoking...another good one
:)
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Chitra Venkatessalu said...
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8:54 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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reminds me of "My best friend''s
wedding! The typical dash of bitters in the end???
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alpana said...
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3:16 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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love is so simple but we make it so
complex...by getting possesive jealous and simply by expecting when its not
required! nice post!
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seppy seppy said...
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2:43 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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The Fear of Losing...........
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bronzegoddess bright said...
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2:40 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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lust itself is a chemical reaction
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bronzegoddess bright said...
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2:39 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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Just when does friendship turn into
love?Is it when lust enters?nope..it happens when hormones start
functioning..
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surekha das said...
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1:27 PM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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hmmmmmmm very scary but true........,
it is the thing which i guess most of us experienced but never
expressed...............!! caje u r simply grrrr8!!!
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shahana qutab said...
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10:02 AM | 1/Feb/07 | |
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superb.......again ace caje......it has
happened to me tooo...really identify with the thought.....great thinking
caje.
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urmi mehta said...
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8:23 PM | 31/Jan/07 | |
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wat to comment ????? as i am totally
speechless after reading this. wat i can say is that u have copied my mind
and woved it beautifully. very truly written (and to some extent it is
reality)wat ever you have questioned in your post.
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